15.9.2008

Got a guy come and asked me a strange question. At first, he look at me seriously and asked "May I ask u a question?” Sure i said okay. You can ask, but not means I must answer what! Hehe... Then, he asked: “In what situation, a girl will woo a guy?".
I was surprised by his question. I didn't answer directly and asked him: “why?”
A guy interested to a girl, why don't take initiative and effort to get the girl's hearts? He should thinks how to make the girl to feel any sort of attraction towards him. But he just thinks of how can make the girl woo him?? He replied me a very kanasai answer: "Just want know the kang tao, and then can save a lot of effort."=.=
You know what appear in my mind after I listen to his reply? So insincerely, lazy & kanasai guy!!! He never uses efforts in wooing process, seems likes don’t’ want to work, but waiting money falling from sky! Then, how about their life later if they become couple? I can't image!
Between, he doesn’t have the terms and conditions that a girl will woo him. he not charming, not handsome, not rich.....and the most important is "BO XIM"... Haha...=p
He should thinks of how to make the girl likes him. If she likes him too, everything becomes easy what. If you really like her, what efforts are worth, right?

Maybe he has no confidence. He said he's tired to wonder what's in her mind. Ever tried to wonder what's in a girl's mind? What is she thinking about? Do you know that girl do not always mean what they say? They might say something and mean the exact opposite. But what do girl actually want? Do you know there are some secrets girl don't want guy to know but you absolutely must know these secrets in order to succeed with girl? You need overcome unconfident and find out yourself la…

Guys, if you also thinking how to make a girl woo you, then you need make sure you are most charming, most good looking, most rich, most capable....until girl will falls to you herself. If not, just use the simple way. Show your sincerity to touch her heart! :-)